Thursday, December 6, 2012

"I hate Politics" - and I hate them who follow this phrase

"I hate Politics" - Now days, this is a fashion phrase for young. You know what, putting your nose in others business is bad, but not putting it on your own business is a simply symptom of coward. Politics is not a business of them to whom you elected as your leaders, it is purely yours and you have to look after it.

Do you have any idea about yesterday?? The result of this attitude created a biggest shame for our country. We got banned from International Olympic due to our bad politics. Who are responsible for it?

By the way, if you hate politics, then why you just vote a person in a minute with out thinking further? Ok, let's say you don't participate in any voting process, then why are you showing your dissatisfaction when something happens to you personally due to a system that comes through politics?

Come front, take responsibilities, stop corruptions as much you can. Don't run away from it, unless many more awards are on the way to full fill your home. One day will come, you will be rewarded by other countries as a best lazy, selfish, corrupted person in the world along with your country.

Wednesday, October 24, 2012

The Moment I Started to Forget you!!

The moment I started to forget you.. 
sadness ran away from me..
pain sat in the silence in a corner of my heart..
rock life styles rushed into my life..
many huddles solved out..
life became just easy..

but.. but.. I.. 
I lost the power of writings..
couldn't think more..
not able to enjoying the loneliness moments..
no more posts on my blog..
no status on facebook or twitter..
I am not dreaming more.. or not having a race for my dreams
and now the speed became slow to achieve the success..

the moment i started to forget you...
i tried to enjoy life..
i tried to make others smile..
became joker for other to make them smile..
always being happy..

but.. but.. still the pain was there..
it didn't let me go through like this..
came out last night..
helped me to write this.. and, made others to read this..

thanks to the pain.. and thanks a ton to you.. 

do you know who are you??

Tuesday, May 15, 2012

Why Do You Reply Wrong Though You Know the Correct One?

What is your aim of life? - This is a question that i am asked from my childhood. But my answers are different always!!  Does the answer vary person to person or age to age?

By the way, later I found the answer is one. But most of people reply the answer which is exactly the way to reach at the aim, not the exact answer. Right? When they understood it, the time has been passed and regretted themselves. They had the idea about the answer, but still they ignored that and chose it as their own way. 

Why did they do so? Is it difficult to say and live with the right answer? 

Hmm, may be. But you will find happiness around you always if you can chose the right answer. Yes, do remember that the answer is one and prefixed. :) I wish that you will find it soon and live your life in a great  joy.

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Self Esteem or Ego?

Identification of Self-Esteem and Ego is always a big crucial topic.  I might not have any big tips for you in this post, but surely can assure you that you will find yourself in an imagination sphere after reading this.

We all love to say and see ourselves as a self-respecting person. The both ego and self-esteem are the nouns those can represent you as a unique in a crowd. But which one is better of them? Do you know the difference between them?

Have a study here with some examples:
  • You are a Boss. One day, your sweeper hasn't come. So you don’t also feel comfortable to sweep your own chamber in front of your other employees. – Is it your ego or self-esteem?
  • Your love does not speak with you for past one week; you don’t also initiate the situation to talk first from your side. Is it your ego or self-esteem?
Like the above examples, you can ask the question on your behaviors that are happening in your daily life.

We call it ego when one person acts and decides on his own way without giving or taking any chance. The person, who never likes to be soft, kind, is having more chances into the Egoism.

But the self-esteem comes from one ego. When you convert your ego into the self-esteem, it comes through the softness, kindness, truth, understanding and knowledge. You should be soft and give chances in the case of sweeping and your love.

You took the all steps first, you stopped your ego, but still it’s continuing. Your sweeper and your love took chances of your softness. Then the time has come to think about self- respect. Nobody can call you now that you have ego.

From this post, you might have some points to bring some modifications in your life.  You might be going to name of your behaviors; ego or self-esteem. But still it would be a difficult task; it is always being a very difficult work out to identify the both, so that you would have to study more. On the way of your study, you can say that you are on the way to being a real self-respecting person.

Last 15days back, I was on the road in Andrapradesh, Karnataka and Tamilnadu with my uncle. We were visiting some of spiritual places and learning some of saints’ lives.  We had a discussion on the above topic in the whole journey. It was a great experience. Anyways, that journey with uncle made me to write something on it today. Thanks to uncle and those days.

The next post is: Mildness or Weakness?

When you react on an activity, we can divide your reacts into two parts. In that we can also see the behaviors behind the each two parts. Like:
  1. You didn’t sweep your chamber – In this you may have the ego(You can’t sweep at all as you are a boss) or self-esteem(you don’t want to do that work because your other employees won’t respect you and will feel bad, you don’t want to become a weak in front of your sweeper)
  2. You swept your chamber yourself – In this you may have the Mildness(you are soft, you can give a chance, you want to give a lesson) or Weakness(You can’t be strong in front of a bad, can’t stop or argue with the people)
Here is a great comment on 'Aham' and 'Swaviman' from one of intelligent Men on facebook. (If he will allow me, I will mention his name in future)
First of all, Aham is your existence. It is the supreme consciousness.It is irreducible and far beyond your control. You must understand 'AHAM' and 'AHANKAR' differently. Ego is surely not the exact English equivalent of AHAM.
On the other hand, just opposite to your understanding, Swaviman is the part of our curtailed understanding of Aham. It is the blend of one's altruistic expression with love and possessiveness.It tacitly demands attention, respect and consideration. Swaviman is a great emotional feeling that seeks to tie others with you. The thought of not to be under others clutch is not 'swaviman', it is 'ahankar'. Swabhiman comes with deep involvement and possessiveness.

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Do Love Pain

Pain - Do you love it? If not yet, start to love it :)

I use to pray God to give me some "problems" rather than i call it "pains". Because those help my mind to be more powerful and keep me busy with thoughts, creativity, innovations etc etc. which i love lot.

When I feel the problem is a problem for me that time it becomes a pain for me. But if i love a pain i found that it is only a problem which can be solved.

Don't you?

Saturday, March 24, 2012

Balancing life style.. do you?

Lived in good, lived in bad.. found the juice in both and curating the all what i need.. enjoying my life with them.. making my life more easy.. more easy..

now the time has come to look back at my past days again.. also look forward to my future and work out more n more on my sweet dreams.. not forgetting to enjoy the present.. let's find the only and only good things for me..

Hey, are you there.. listening me?? I am talking about the times that you face in your life. Some times it confuses you.. what to chose and what not to... how should you be and how not to be.. circumstances and situations change you and your mind again again.. don't fear.. stick on one point.. go with the present.. enjoy it.. again come back to that what you love to do.. live in your dream.. filter the things from your life that you need..

don't run away from the present.. it's good than past and future.. love it.. balance your life style.. :)

best of luck!

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

I love a girl

I love a girl who lives in my heart,
she loves me and i live in her heart..

who fears to speak out in the public that she loves me a lot..
really she is my dear jaan.. i love her a lot..

i got a way to live in joy because of my dear,
she is one of the powers of my dreams who takes out me from all fear..

do you know..?? after take a drink, i forget the all things in life
i remember my dears and my childhood school life...

I am open to say and no fear to write on my love,
because she is one of the success keys of my life job..

i can live with out her physical presence,
she is with me and walks with me always..

still.. still i respond and care about my other dears,
who loves me and sees me in their hearts..

I don't know the end.. i don't want to know the end..
i will work, i will live with out her.. i will love her till the end..

One day will come.. you ll see me at the top of a success hill,
where me and my loneliness will be waiting for a goodwill...

you will remember me and miss me in your life in every moment,
that's the key of my success that God wants me for this planet.,,

Sunday, January 15, 2012

Creating Opportunities

2012.. was a most highlighted year before it comes...
it's a year that made me to think more before it comes...

It tells me to move forward towards my dreams with the faster and sharper steps again,
it assures that the success will be with me at the end again...

so i am taking the steps with the all risks what i really like to do...
i am creating the opportunities for myself without waiting for a time that it will do..

Will you look for an opportunity from me??
Don't do that.. there is no one that provides have to create it for yourselves..

let me create opportunities for myself....

I Am Waiting For A Time That Will Never Come.

I am waiting for a time that my mom and i will live together,
i am waiting for a time that i will spend some times for my parents each day,
but I know it will never come...

I am waiting for a time that she will come back to me and purpose me,
i am waiting for a time that she will love me and feel my love,

but I know it will never come...

i am waiting for a time that will give me a height of success,
i am waiting for a time that will support my luck,
but i know it will never come...

i am waiting for a time that I will do something for my nation,
i am waiting for a time that i will help people,
but i know it will never come...

i am waiting for a time that i will start work for my dreams,
i am waiting for a time that i will give off my all bad habits,
but i know it will never come...

i am waiting for a time that i will give time to my friends,
i am waiting for a time that i will take a risk,
i am waiting for a time that i will be my dream man,
but i know it will never come...

so i am not waiting for a time now... that will never come..
i take all the steps now itself.. leave the all results on my God's wish..
he will take care of all.. i started my journey from now itself..

I can't wait for a time that didn't come for last 10yrs
i can't wait for a time that will also never come after 10yrs..

I will work for them, the time will come to me..  i will not wait for a time that will never come..