Tuesday, December 20, 2011

Simplest Ways of Meditation

Listening songs in an early morning, washing clothes, working on a project, digging holes, driving bikes, reading books, cooking food, all are same as praying God. Work is Prayer. It's true.

While you do engage yourself in these works, you need concentrations like you do in prayers. You do prayer or meditations in many ways and all for the peace. If you look at the above activities, in every activities you will find a peace and you will feel calm around you.

The most simplest meditation way is Sweeping a Room. Try to observe while you are sweeping a room; you will feel a happiness without thinking the outer side at that time what you try to do in your meditation.

No need to worry about the timing, process for a meditation, it happens in your work, in your daily life; only need deserving mind towards your work with a satisfied mood.

If you follow the recommended meditation process by great men, it's more good.

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Hum Majboor Nahi Hai

kuchh pane liye kisi ke liye kuchh kar jane ki tamanain... dukh pahuncha ta hai.
aur dukh to hume manjur nehi hai..
Isi liye hum kuchh soche bina aap ko pyar kar jate hai..

par isko hamari majboor sochne ki bhul, bhul se bhi mat karna...
kiunki hum kabhi kisi k age majboor nahi hain..
..

Thursday, October 13, 2011

BUSY LIFE IS EASY LIFE


Posted by Mr. Dillip:

Dear Friends,

I believe in the Phrase Busy life is easy Life. I know some of you will be agree on this point and some are not. Let’s discuss on it.

There is an old saying Empty mind is devils house. Our Mind is a thought machine. We have million of neurons in our brain. Each neuron generates some electro magnetic signals. Some of them send and some of them receive it. When signals transfers  thought process generates and it gives some meaning. These neurons can’t stay idle. They want to remain busy always when our brain is active or in other words when we are in conscious stage. Our brain has two parts. 1. Conscious & 2. Subconscious. So when we sleep our Subconscious part of brain keeps working. So through out the day what ever we worked, seen, heard, spoke it keeps recording, analyzing, rewinding etc. As a result of which sometimes we see some dreams. So conclusion is that mind needs some thought or input to work productively because it can’t be idle or you can’t be thought less or you can’t force your mind thought less.

Now come to the topic how we can remain easy when we are busy?

Now my question is to you? First analyze your life style. Analyze your Daily activity. What you are doing every day? What you are thinking everyday morning and what you are doing throughout day? Before sleep check did you achieve in the day what you thought in the morning? If yes How? If no Why?

Options:
a)      Did you relax in the day?
b)      Did you forget what you thought in the morning?
c)      Did you felt difficult to do?
d)     Did you over target so you could not achieve it?

Definitely you will get some answer.

Ok. Leave it.

By nature Human beings want to be free, relax and want to enjoy all beautiful things available in the world without any effort or difficulty. But is it possible in the real world?

Let’s understand what we mean busy life and easy life.

We thought easy life means what ever we want we should get with a little effort or no effort without any fraction of delay so that our life can be easy and enjoyable.

Busy life means always work and no rest to think about ourselves, others, no enjoyment. So it is very difficult. Who will prefer this life? Why will prefer this busy life?
Now this two point BUSY and EASY is completely Opposite. How it is possible busy life is easy life?

Everybody knows in this real world Resources are limited but human wants are unlimited. All we are materialistic more or less. We got pleasure from this materialistic world. For Example: You bought a new car, got a new laptop, camera, pass your exam with 1st division, got a job in MNC etc. so we got pleasure. Isn’t it?  But why you are happy? After passed your exam with division why you are feeling easy? Let’s see.


If you are a student and passed your exam with division now you will feel easy because you will get a good college for your higher study. Now you can feel easy because you were busy in your study. At the same time think others those who spending their student life easily and now they are not getting admission. Busy or Easy?

If you are an employee very dedicated to your profession and love what you are doing so you are getting your appraisal and promotion? Are you feeling easy? Think others who were chit chatting with others what about them?

If you are a self employed or doing some social service you had put an objective and work for it and got the result. Are you feeling Easy? Think about others those who have no work and morning to evening moving here and there?

Look to a working house wife or lady. What she is doing and an idle hose wife, always complaint about others what she is doing? Who is easy?

Just look to your surrounding there are ‘n’ no of examples on busy and easy.

Why we should be busy? Because our brain is so powerful it can’t be idle and we are leaving in a world where we need lot of things in our life. As like our body need food to survive like that our brain need thoughts. So we should feed our brain with constructive and positive thought everyday morning and we should analyze our self before going to bed. Otherwise like seed like tree. Our brain will absorb all negative thought and will start implementing it. That time we will feel it is the easy life and best life. We can not expect apple if we planted a mango tree. Effort is in our hand but not result. Our effort may be goes waste as like corps goes waste by cyclone or flood. But not always. So why we will fear to put our effort?

Don’t be busy for the sake of busy. If you will not busy somebody will make you busy, like your father need something from you, your teacher given a task to you or the situation is pushing you to be busy for your servival. But if you will be busy for what you want to do then you can enjoy your busy life. So think again. This is real world.

Your mind is a miracle box or like the Jin Of Alhadin Lamp if you will keep busy in a constructive way, so it will give you what you ask. It is little bit dificullt but ultimately you will get real meaning of easy. But at the same time it is like a devil if you will not utilise proper way it will utilise you and take you into that step where don’t think of and after that your rest of life will be always busy, which looks easy.


Do you think we should be always busy for these material achievements? Absolutely not. Believe it or not, God or some one has created us with a clear objective to do a specific role which is inherent inside us. Feel it, understand it and utilize it. This will make our life easy.

Friends your suggestions, Comments are welcome for my next writing.

Dillip.

Wednesday, September 28, 2011

I Reduced My All Unnecessary Expenses For Food For Poor

Today again, I was shucked for two times for one scene. Some years before i was walking on a footpath nearby Rajmahal Square, Bhubaneswar. I saw one family of three members on that footpath; mother, her 2/3yrs old girl and her 3/4yrs old boy. They were fighting each other for a poor meal collected from any rich men's parties nearby. The meal was not sufficient for a child also, not included minimum items for a needy person also. The mother was taking her own food and the children was fighting to get from her. It was not easy to see the scene by standing there for a while. 

Just 15mins before of that I had finished my lunch in a standard hotel at Rajmahal Square and spent 50rupees for my meal. However, that day 30rupees was enough to fulfill my hungriness and so called necessary vitamins for the day as well. Whether I couldn't able to help that family at-least 20rupees for their food. That day, I was not strong myself to donate that much because of something that I don't know. It's not that I had no money in that moment, but I couldn't able do that. It's all about strong feelings or something else. 

That day, I had taken one promise that at least I will reduce my food expenses, but I had forgotten to add that in my life style. Today again, when I was walking on a footpath near to Silk Board, Bangalore, I saw a family of two members; one mother and her child. She was crying for food and her child was sleeping. I know that it will take time to verify their real needs, but it's true that many people are there in India who can't get their  minimum  food. I was shucked again.

So I planned to reduce my all unnecessary expenses from now on wards.

I can  reduce my exp in this ways:

  • Not going for luxurious food in hotels, parties
  • Avoid bars, drinks, smokes etc
  • If having times, prepare food in room
  • buying or using clothes as minimum requirements
  • not to live in high rented rooms
  • not using vehicles unnecessarily
  • like many more...
If you want to help some poor, you may chose some of the points above or add into the list on which you can compromise.

You may find a needy poor in your family, relatives, friends, neighbors, village or in your daily life. 

I will spend those amount of saved money on food for a poor.

To Prevent Corruption, Don't Wait For a Team - a great experience that shared by Prabhat


I was introduced to Prabhat while I was asking to facebook users for a suggestion on fraud done by mobile service providers. I am suffering in the same, so that I am being prepare to file a sue against TATA docomo in consumer court.

“How Prabhat feels proud by preventing corruption”.  He is sharing his great experience (happened on 27th sep, 11), do read below:

“Yesterday, on the way to office, I was stopped by traffic policemen (Ghazipur, Delhi), and asked to show relevant documents of my bike.
I told them that 1) pollution certificate has expired and 2) Insurance copy that I was carrying is also outdated (although I have the renewed Insurance policy but was not carrying at that time).
The senior Inspector told me to that this will reach to a heavy penalty amt. So he offered me to SETTLE DOWN the matter then n there. (A thought ran in my mind, asking myself: I was the part of people supporting "Anti-Corruption" movement lead by ANNA HAZARE, just a month back, and the practical situation was in front of me, n how to deal with that).

Suddenly, I got my answer, and I refused them to pay anything, and asked them to issue a CHALLAN. Hence, they issued the same with 2 offenses viz. 1) Expired Pollution and 2) Expired Insurance and retained bike's RC (Registration Certificate).

To pay the penalty I was to appear at Karkardooma Court (room no. 30) by 4pm today. So, I went there, at the scheduled time. The moment I parked my bike, a bunch of people called Agents approached me and started querying about the matter, and were assuring to do the job done in 15 min. and were telling me that for both the offenses I 'll be charged about Rs. 2000/-, and if I had the Insurance then Rs 1100/- at least, but they can settle the matter within 500-600 rupees (including their commission worth Rs. 100). From parking up to Room no. 30, some dozens of Agents approached me and delivered the same damn story. I told them "listen, If I were to pay You people then I would have paid the policemen and need not come here".

I submitted the copy of CHALLAN and waited for my turn in Room no. 30. The (Lady)Judge appeared in the court and began hearings... after 5-7 minutes my name was called and was asked to present the valid Insurance doc. I presented the Original doc. and in fraction of seconds she announced the PENALTY AMOUNT, paid the amount immediately, collected my RC and the Amount Receipt later after the rest of hearings. HMMM... I know, u all are interested in the Penalty Amount, to my SURPRISE!! as well, it came to just Rs 100/-, nothing else.

I was getting a feeling of Satisfaction and Proud, in the sense that, ATLEAST I TRIED to live up to the Ideology of 'ANNA's Movement' against Corruption, in real sense.

MORAL: Never hesitate to approach the officials directly to resolve our personal matters. This way, we will get to know the actual rules n regulations and could contribute in removing CORRUPTION. Please Spread if u liked/not liked this.

It was amazing experience...”

We should not wait for a team to prevent corruption that Prabhat proved.

Thanks Prabhat.

Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Sunday Evening with Mr. Jagannath

Sunday evening, I was roaming around Silk Board square. I was relaxing myself after spending the whole day with newspapers, TV and Internet. Suddenly; exactly not suddenly, it was a preplanned to meet Mr. Jagannath on that day at his home. You can say it that was an invitation from him to me after a long time. Though I have gone in last week to meet him but that was not like this time. It was a special meet.  I reached at his home around 6.30Pm. Many people were there before me. All were busy with their own issues with him. I was observing the activities those were going on there. I found that people were sharing their feelings with him, but he was smiling always. “It may be a habit of him”, I thought. I don’t know whether people were getting satisfaction from his answer or not.

In the mean time, we both got a chance to welcome each other. I gave a smile and he also did the same. We moved towards the chairs and took the sit both. He serve me some Prasad. We shared many personal things to each other. I was sharing some serious decision that taken by me, but he was smiling. He was smiling from the beginning. I felt very uncomfortable with his smile. Whereas I was very serious at that time, but he was smiling at me. I thought he was taking me very lightly. I asked him with keeping a little angriness on his smile, but still he was smiling at me. It made me more angry. “Why do you smile while I am sharing my serious problem with you?”, I asked him again. 

“It’s my style. Whatever you are sharing now, I know it before you. The situation is with you now that is created by me. The solution that you are asking me, that is already fixed by me before your sharing. You are playing a role in a drama that directed by me. I have sent to you in this world for doing my job, but you have forgotten about the all things. It’s ok, it was also a part of that drama, but you should come back to your real character. However, you are not doing that. You have been already made you different from my creation and now you are sharing your issues with me to help you. You are sharing with me like a creator of yourself. You are taking promises and showing your madness in front of me. Now you tell me that what would you do if you were in my position? So, I am smiling always. By the way, I am thankful to you that you made me smile.:) ”, replied Mr. Jagannath to me.

He was replying without  taking a rest. I thought that he was waiting for this time to tell me. I stood up from my chair without any single word and move towards my room. Still, he was smiling behind me.

Really, we make him smile always.
 
You can continue your life like as a foolish as me for his smile or you can return to your real character and responsibilities that also make him smile. It’s your choice how to get thanks from him.

Friday, September 9, 2011

(Team Asha) They Clean our Hearts, Not a Street

Team Asha Bangalore:
Everybody may have seen a banner on I love India Group on facebook. This banner asks us to clean one of the most problems in India. Many people keep their own concerns and also want to all clear. But as I say in my last post that people wait for a team with them to clean these issues. They need a team of manpower’s or a fund of money to participate in this clearing mission. And, this thoughts push them to find themselves in their last age as a failure.

The banner has asked for three issues. Definitely, we can’t think about all at a speed of 100 in one day. But we take one step, choose a small role and start the work like Team Asha. They are waiting for us. They didn’t ask me to join with them. When I saw the video, it’s astonished me a lot. Each Individual army of light(I call good people with this name) was cleaning that street, stadium without asking, without waiting for others. I feel they are not cleaning that street, they are cleaning our hearts.

Want to Help Nation? Then, Build an Army


With the age grown up, many times we come through some of inspired events in our life those make us patriotism for some times. Like the last historical movement against corruption called by Anna. This type of movements are always being powerful effect on the society. If you look at the revolutions those moved by Gandhi, Mangal Pandey or Subhash Bose, all were most powerful to motivate people. That time many of us join with them and make the movement successful. We take promises, curate people to develop a team who will work forward for the nation.

But if you want be a hero like them:) Or you want to help nation as them, then follow their path; read their life; find juice, secret of their success. You will find an army behind them. They have own army. They don’t wait for others, don’t ask for others’ help. They don’t need a team with them to protest bad things. They take steps first and alone. This is the power that they use in their movements. People come with them. They are one man army. If you want to build an army, be an one man army.

Stand against small issues that comes in your daily life. Stand with them who brings good things to your society.  But keep in mind; though you are an one-man army, you have to know your limitations also:)

Best of luck!

Thursday, September 8, 2011

I am Simple and Beautiful; Keep Me Like This

Hi,
I am simple. Why do you people make me critical?  I don’t want to lose my lovers. Keep me simple and beautiful. But sometimes I like to wear some jewellery. You can put those into me while I need go outside. . I don’t like long sentences. I don’t like difficult words. Try to understand that most of peoples are not highly educated as you. Don’t use critical phrases into me. Don’t make me lengthy. Give me some rest. But I like pictures with me. I like comments from you. I like to publish myself as much as you can. But keep in mind; I am very powerful. I can change you. I can destroy you. I can build system and break also. So be careful with me. Please don’t mind; I don’t want any bad things for you. I always love you.

Now days, I am losing my lovers speedily. I am on search for my lovers. If their wants are changing, I am also ready to change for them, because I love them a lot.  But try to keep me in simple.

Do you know who am I? I am a beautiful Article.

Do you love me?

My Children; They Are Planning To Kill Me; Please Save.

I am in trouble. Many people are planning to kill me now. However, It’s a shame that I had to express this in front of you today. You can’t see this. Though you see this, you act as an unknown to me. Even so, as a mother I can’t see you in destroy. If I ll be killed, I know that my children will be killed. So that I had to come out. You all are blind now. I have cores of  children. But they are busy with themselves. They have forgotten to me.

It’s a very shame that I had to write over here about my children. Sorry for that. Excuse me my children. What don’t I do for you? Whenever you are in trouble, I was with you. Just go to flash back of your life, of your ancestors’ life, look at the history, you will find your mother’s help in every step. You have no identify without me.  You were orphans. I saved you. When you go to abroad, you take my name to show you as a child of great mother. I have ever stopped you from your freedom? Have I ever asked you help me? Should I ask my children to help me, look after me? I think, I am mad. I also agree that some of your ancestors have made me proud. They were really my great children. I am proud of them. But, what about you? You are also forgetting them, their scarifies.
If you will be keeping yourself busy like this way, you must be going to destroy with me. I don’t care that they will kill me, I care you, I love you. I can’t see you in trouble. 
What happed yesterday, the bastards made a blast in Delhi, in our capital! How did they get to dare to do this? How are they getting support to do this always? They are dancing on my heart. They proved me as a helpless. Now, I feel alone, not for parents, for my children. The bastard terrors don’t have feelings. I know, there are some of my children also with them. I think, some wrong has been made with them. So they are angry. Even so, they should care about their mother, sisters. How can they do this with heart less?
I have distributed the responsibilities to my children with some powers. But, some of them are utilizing it for self-comforts. Some of them are politicians, they are busy with luxurious parties, girls, corruptions. They forgot about the safety of mine. They are not ready to listen the bomb sound, see the fear among my other children. We are not safe in our home itself. So, I evoke my children; you come out and make aware to politicians and about their responsibilities.
Now days, terrorists from other countries, our neighbors are waiting for a chance to destroy me. Like China; He is preparing with powerful weapons near to my border. We don’t have that type of powerful weapons to oppose him. He is supporting to our other neighbors against us. He is taking advantage of LTTE issue through Srilanka. Still, these politicians are busy with internal matters, and don’t be prepared for the situation.
If you don’t have money to invest on my security, then let’s collect 1 rupee / month from each person. Don’t forget that we are 120 cores. We can arrange 120 cores in a day by collecting only 1 rupee from each. Put the all money for the security. 
Stop internal issues as soon as possible. It’s created by them to destroy us. Also, stop the disturbed politicians from corruption, catch them as soon as possible. They had made this situation. I support my son Anna for his evoke to bring a strong law against the corruption. Support him more to more. Like him, you create super ideas to stop this situation and come out for me. I will support you until my last blood cell. Our government should be active more in this situation. Unless, you will do a crime by killing your own mother.

At last, I love you all and have a confident on my children. They are good but for some time they are in a wrong way. They will come back to me. They will save me.

I love you.

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Emotion Makes Us Mistake

Emotion makes us mistake. Don’t fall in emotions or don’t try to fall others into it. Unless, you do repeat your mistakes. It explores you as a poor personality and the situation can take advantage of this. You may be cheated by them. You may lose your weight in front of them which was created with a lot effort and a years of investment by you. You may have already faced this while you are talking with your boss, teacher or friends. You can’t control yourself and speak out a lot in front of them which is not sharable in that certain time and situation.

When you find yourself with this, just be aware about it and take a decision. The time has come that you need to go a depth silence and be a best listener to others. Maintain this life style for a time period and during that try to be more strong on it and take care of it. When you feel that now you are fine and you can control yourself now, you start speak little. Take trials, analyze yourself.

But the key is; Keep silence, Listen others. Express your thoughts with a rest.

Keep in mind; Words doesn’t come return once it’s spoken out.

Thursday, May 19, 2011

It should be written now!

Hi friends,

Good morning!

I thought i shouldn't miss the mood now, so going to write a thought that just came to my mind. It's amazing way to give off your bad habits that i am going to share with you now.

Every things have a limit. Even if it's for our bad habits.  If you find the limit of it then there is no way to go for the next steps  because you are in now dead line. It's end. So far you don't know that what's the limit your bad habits. I suggest you that you should ask an experience person who has already cross the limit and having a lots of experience on the results. So it's easy to find out the limit of your bad habits. You should reach at limit of your bad habits as soon as possible, unless it ll take a long time to understand the effects and results.

So what's my suggestion is that you find out your limits of your bad habits with an experience person and reach at it asap. I have an idea that how to reach at the limit of our bad habits. Just sit silence and start think about one of your bad habits. And it's results. Now, try to do it as per as possible at the same moment, try to reach at the dead line.

After reach there, just tell me how do you feel now. Still do you want to continue that habits?

But remember you can reach at the limit, but don't cross the limit. It may be dangerous for you.

If you cross, i ll not be there with you.

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Need Indians To Helping Poors

Hi,

I need some Indians to join in Indian Forum and participate in this forum actively. This forum is created by Agni Group of Social Businesses. AGSB is a social organization that does many small businesses and spends the profit for poor Indians. This forum is created for this propose only. The all incomes from this forum is offered to poor Indians.

If you join will join here and discuss about many facts on India then the forum will be more popular, the forum will have more visitors. By this way this forum can put some ads on it and from this advertisement programs this forum can earn more. The profits will spent on many social programs that held through AGSB. So be a part of social work just spending some time on line.

For more information please post questions at therealindiansclub.com/forum






After a long time...

Hi friends,

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