Fir Ek Promise..!!

fir ek promise..!!
kitne promise le le k jiyenge vai.. !!!

aj vi promise lena padega yesa kavi socha nahi tha..
jyese fir ek surbat...
jyese kanha ghum gaye the hum.. aur laut aye..
ya fir kanha galat the aur fir galt kar rahe hain..
kuchh vi pata nahi hume..
bas laute hain jii....

fir ek promise.. !!
dekhte hain kya hota hai..

I Started Expecting and You Started Going Away

I started expecting from you..
you started going away from me..

now I am afraid of losing you..
so stopped expecting..
but did you stop going away?
No!! Right??

yup.. it may that I am not a type of friend that you are looking for..
I am not perfect as you want.. so you donno wanna come back..
it's a right time to go away with a cause.. to avoid me.. so nice.. :)

it was a right to be loved by you.. cared by you..
are they called expectations??

of-course, you should go away if someone is expecting without your prior permissions..

hmm.. I see.. expectation is the cause of sorry. But what I expected??
can't my mom expect love from me?? can't my friends expect care from me??
can't I expect care from my beloved??

So I asked you, myself and my friends; Should my expectations be always zero in all cases?

hello, it's not an anger message for anybody.. so please don't take on me or yourself.. i just felt my friend's pain and wrote it..

thanks again to the pain for helping me to write.. :)

Wen I Got Enough Confidence

Wen I Got Enough Confidence,

The Stage Was Gone!

Wen I Was Shure Of Losing,

I Won!

Wen I Needed The People Most,

Dey Left Me!

Wen I Learnt To Dry My Tears,

I Found A Shoulder To Cry On!

Wen I Became Busy,

I Got Friends!

Wen I Mastered The Skill Of Hating,

Somebody Started LOVING Me!

After Waiting For Dawn,

I Fell Asleep & The Sun Came Out!

That's Life!

Simply Unpredictable

Source: Collected from friends facebook post

"I hate Politics" - and I hate them who follow this phrase

"I hate Politics" - Now days, this is a fashion phrase for young. You know what, putting your nose in others business is bad, but not putting it on your own business is a simply symptom of coward. Politics is not a business of them to whom you elected as your leaders, it is purely yours and you have to look after it.

Do you have any idea about yesterday?? The result of this attitude created a biggest shame for our country. We got banned from International Olympic due to our bad politics. Who are responsible for it?

By the way, if you hate politics, then why you just vote a person in a minute with out thinking further? Ok, let's say you don't participate in any voting process, then why are you showing your dissatisfaction when something happens to you personally due to a system that comes through politics?

Come front, take responsibilities, stop corruptions as much you can. Don't run away from it, unless many more awards are on the way to full fill your home. One day will come, you will be rewarded by other countries as a best lazy, selfish, corrupted person in the world along with your country.

The Moment I Started to Forget you!!

The moment I started to forget you.. 
sadness ran away from me..
pain sat in the silence in a corner of my heart..
rock life styles rushed into my life..
many huddles solved out..
life became just easy..

but.. but.. I.. 
I lost the power of writings..
couldn't think more..
not able to enjoying the loneliness moments..
no more posts on my blog..
no status on facebook or twitter..
I am not dreaming more.. or not having a race for my dreams
and now the speed became slow to achieve the success..

the moment i started to forget you...
i tried to enjoy life..
i tried to make others smile..
became joker for other to make them smile..
always being happy..

but.. but.. still the pain was there..
it didn't let me go through like this..
came out last night..
helped me to write this.. and, made others to read this..

thanks to the pain.. and thanks a ton to you.. 

do you know who are you??

Why Do You Reply Wrong Though You Know the Correct One?

What is your aim of life? - This is a question that i am asked from my childhood. But my answers are different always!!  Does the answer vary person to person or age to age?

By the way, later I found the answer is one. But most of people reply the answer which is exactly the way to reach at the aim, not the exact answer. Right? When they understood it, the time has been passed and regretted themselves. They had the idea about the answer, but still they ignored that and chose it as their own way. 

Why did they do so? Is it difficult to say and live with the right answer? 

Hmm, may be. But you will find happiness around you always if you can chose the right answer. Yes, do remember that the answer is one and prefixed. :) I wish that you will find it soon and live your life in a great  joy.

Self Esteem or Ego?

Identification of Self-Esteem and Ego is always a big crucial topic.  I might not have any big tips for you in this post, but surely can assure you that you will find yourself in an imagination sphere after reading this.

We all love to say and see ourselves as a self-respecting person. The both ego and self-esteem are the nouns those can represent you as a unique in a crowd. But which one is better of them? Do you know the difference between them?

Have a study here with some examples:

• You are a Boss. One day, your sweeper hasn't come. So you don’t also feel comfortable to sweep your own chamber in front of your other employees. – Is it your ego or self-esteem?
• Your love does not speak with you for past one week; you don’t also initiate the situation to talk first from your side. Is it your ego or self-esteem?

Like the above examples, you can ask the question on your behaviors that are happening in your daily life.

We call it ego when one person acts and decides on his own way without giving or taking any chance. The person, who never likes to be soft, kind, is having more chances into the Egoism.

But the self-esteem comes from one ego. When you convert your ego into the self-esteem, it comes through the softness, kindness, truth, understanding and knowledge. You should be soft and give chances in the case of sweeping and your love.

You took the all steps first, you stopped your ego, but still it’s continuing. Your sweeper and your love took chances of your softness. Then the time has come to think about self- respect. Nobody can call you now that you have ego.

From this post, you might have some points to bring some modifications in your life.  You might be going to name of your behaviors; ego or self-esteem. But still it would be a difficult task; it is always being a very difficult work out to identify the both, so that you would have to study more. On the way of your study, you can say that you are on the way to being a real self-respecting person.

Last 15days back, I was on the road in Andrapradesh, Karnataka and Tamilnadu with my uncle. We were visiting some of spiritual places and learning some of saints’ lives.  We had a discussion on the above topic in the whole journey. It was a great experience. Anyways, that journey with uncle made me to write something on it today. Thanks to uncle and those days.

The next post is: Mildness or Weakness?

When you react on an activity, we can divide your reacts into two parts. In that we can also see the behaviors behind the each two parts. Like:

1. You didn’t sweep your chamber – In this you may have the ego(You can’t sweep at all as you are a boss) or self-esteem(you don’t want to do that work because your other employees won’t respect you and will feel bad, you don’t want to become a weak in front of your sweeper)
2. You swept your chamber yourself – In this you may have the Mildness(you are soft, you can give a chance, you want to give a lesson) or Weakness(You can’t be strong in front of a bad, can’t stop or argue with the people)

Here is a great comment on 'Aham' and 'Swaviman' from one of intelligent Men on facebook. (If he will allow me, I will mention his name in future)

First of all, Aham is your existence. It is the supreme consciousness.It is irreducible and far beyond your control. You must understand 'AHAM' and 'AHANKAR' differently. Ego is surely not the exact English equivalent of AHAM.

On the other hand, just opposite to your understanding, Swaviman is the part of our curtailed understanding of Aham. It is the blend of one's altruistic expression with love and possessiveness.It tacitly demands attention, respect and consideration. Swaviman is a great emotional feeling that seeks to tie others with you. The thought of not to be under others clutch is not 'swaviman', it is 'ahankar'. Swabhiman comes with deep involvement and possessiveness.

Do Love Pain

Pain - Do you love it? If not yet, start to love it :)

I use to pray God to give me some "problems" rather than i call it "pains". Because those help my mind to be more powerful and keep me busy with thoughts, creativity, innovations etc etc. which i love lot.

When I feel the problem is a problem for me that time it becomes a pain for me. But if i love a pain i found that it is only a problem which can be solved.

Don't you?

Balancing life style.. do you?

Lived in good, lived in bad.. found the juice in both and curating the all what i need.. enjoying my life with them.. making my life more easy.. more easy..

now the time has come to look back at my past days again.. also look forward to my future and work out more n more on my sweet dreams.. not forgetting to enjoy the present.. let's find the only and only good things for me..

Hey, are you there.. listening me?? I am talking about the times that you face in your life. Some times it confuses you.. what to chose and what not to... how should you be and how not to be.. circumstances and situations change you and your mind again again.. don't fear.. stick on one point.. go with the present.. enjoy it.. again come back to that what you love to do.. live in your dream.. filter the things from your life that you need..

don't run away from the present.. it's good than past and future.. love it.. balance your life style.. :)

best of luck!

I love a girl

I love a girl who lives in my heart,
she loves me and i live in her heart..

who fears to speak out in the public that she loves me a lot..
really she is my dear jaan.. i love her a lot..

i got a way to live in joy because of my dear,
she is one of the powers of my dreams who takes out me from all fear..

do you know..?? after take a drink, i forget the all things in life
i remember my dears and my childhood school life...

I am open to say and no fear to write on my love,
because she is one of the success keys of my life job..

i can live with out her physical presence,
she is with me and walks with me always..

still.. still i respond and care about my other dears,
who loves me and sees me in their hearts..

I don't know the end.. i don't want to know the end..
i will work, i will live with out her.. i will love her till the end..

One day will come.. you ll see me at the top of a success hill,
where me and my loneliness will be waiting for a goodwill...

you will remember me and miss me in your life in every moment,
that's the key of my success that God wants me for this planet.,,

Creating Opportunities

2012.. was a most highlighted year before it comes...
it's a year that made me to think more before it comes...

It tells me to move forward towards my dreams with the faster and sharper steps again,
it assures that the success will be with me at the end again...

so i am taking the steps with the all risks what i really like to do...
i am creating the opportunities for myself without waiting for a time that it will do..

Will you look for an opportunity from me??
Don't do that.. there is no one that provides opportunities..you have to create it for yourselves..

let me create opportunities for myself....

I Am Waiting For A Time That Will Never Come.

I am waiting for a time that my mom and i will live together,
i am waiting for a time that i will spend some times for my parents each day,
but I know it will never come...


I am waiting for a time that she will come back to me and purpose me,
i am waiting for a time that she will love me and feel my love,

but I know it will never come...


i am waiting for a time that will give me a height of success,
i am waiting for a time that will support my luck,
but i know it will never come...

i am waiting for a time that I will do something for my nation,
i am waiting for a time that i will help people,
but i know it will never come...

i am waiting for a time that i will start work for my dreams,
i am waiting for a time that i will give off my all bad habits,
but i know it will never come...

i am waiting for a time that i will give time to my friends,
i am waiting for a time that i will take a risk,
i am waiting for a time that i will be my dream man,
but i know it will never come...

so i am not waiting for a time now... that will never come..
i take all the steps now itself.. leave the all results on my God's wish..
he will take care of all.. i started my journey from now itself..

I can't wait for a time that didn't come for last 10yrs
i can't wait for a time that will also never come after 10yrs..

I will work for them, the time will come to me..  i will not wait for a time that will never come..

Simplest Ways of Meditation

Listening songs in an early morning, washing clothes, working on a project, digging holes, driving bikes, reading books, cooking food, all are same as praying God. Work is Prayer. It's true.

While you do engage yourself in these works, you need concentrations like you do in prayers. You do prayer or meditations in many ways and all for the peace. If you look at the above activities, in every activities you will find a peace and you will feel calm around you.

The most simplest meditation way is Sweeping a Room. Try to observe while you are sweeping a room; you will feel a happiness without thinking the outer side at that time what you try to do in your meditation.

No need to worry about the timing, process for a meditation, it happens in your work, in your daily life; only need deserving mind towards your work with a satisfied mood.

If you follow the recommended meditation process by great men, it's more good.

Hum Majboor Nahi Hai

kuchh pane liye kisi ke liye kuchh kar jane ki tamanain... dukh pahuncha ta hai.
aur dukh to hume manjur nehi hai..
Isi liye hum kuchh soche bina aap ko pyar kar jate hai..

par isko hamari majboor sochne ki bhul, bhul se bhi mat karna...
kiunki hum kabhi kisi k age majboor nahi hain..
..

BUSY LIFE IS EASY LIFE

Posted by Mr. Dillip:

Dear Friends,

I believe in the Phrase Busy life is easy Life. I know some of you will be agree on this point and some are not. Let’s discuss on it.

There is an old saying Empty mind is devils house. Our Mind is a thought machine. We have million of neurons in our brain. Each neuron generates some electro magnetic signals. Some of them send and some of them receive it. When signals transfers  thought process generates and it gives some meaning. These neurons can’t stay idle. They want to remain busy always when our brain is active or in other words when we are in conscious stage. Our brain has two parts. 1. Conscious & 2. Subconscious. So when we sleep our Subconscious part of brain keeps working. So through out the day what ever we worked, seen, heard, spoke it keeps recording, analyzing, rewinding etc. As a result of which sometimes we see some dreams. So conclusion is that mind needs some thought or input to work productively because it can’t be idle or you can’t be thought less or you can’t force your mind thought less.

Now come to the topic how we can remain easy when we are busy?

Now my question is to you? First analyze your life style. Analyze your Daily activity. What you are doing every day? What you are thinking everyday morning and what you are doing throughout day? Before sleep check did you achieve in the day what you thought in the morning? If yes How? If no Why?

Options:

a)      Did you relax in the day?

b)      Did you forget what you thought in the morning?

c)      Did you felt difficult to do?

d)     Did you over target so you could not achieve it?

Definitely you will get some answer.

Ok. Leave it.

By nature Human beings want to be free, relax and want to enjoy all beautiful things available in the world without any effort or difficulty. But is it possible in the real world?

Let’s understand what we mean busy life and easy life.

We thought easy life means what ever we want we should get with a little effort or no effort without any fraction of delay so that our life can be easy and enjoyable.

Busy life means always work and no rest to think about ourselves, others, no enjoyment. So it is very difficult. Who will prefer this life? Why will prefer this busy life?

Now this two point BUSY and EASY is completely Opposite. How it is possible busy life is easy life?

Everybody knows in this real world Resources are limited but human wants are unlimited. All we are materialistic more or less. We got pleasure from this materialistic world. For Example: You bought a new car, got a new laptop, camera, pass your exam with 1^st division, got a job in MNC etc. so we got pleasure. Isn’t it?  But why you are happy? After passed your exam with division why you are feeling easy? Let’s see.

If you are a student and passed your exam with division now you will feel easy because you will get a good college for your higher study. Now you can feel easy because you were busy in your study. At the same time think others those who spending their student life easily and now they are not getting admission. Busy or Easy?

If you are an employee very dedicated to your profession and love what you are doing so you are getting your appraisal and promotion? Are you feeling easy? Think others who were chit chatting with others what about them?

If you are a self employed or doing some social service you had put an objective and work for it and got the result. Are you feeling Easy? Think about others those who have no work and morning to evening moving here and there?

Look to a working house wife or lady. What she is doing and an idle hose wife, always complaint about others what she is doing? Who is easy?

Just look to your surrounding there are ‘n’ no of examples on busy and easy.

Why we should be busy? Because our brain is so powerful it can’t be idle and we are leaving in a world where we need lot of things in our life. As like our body need food to survive like that our brain need thoughts. So we should feed our brain with constructive and positive thought everyday morning and we should analyze our self before going to bed. Otherwise like seed like tree. Our brain will absorb all negative thought and will start implementing it. That time we will feel it is the easy life and best life. We can not expect apple if we planted a mango tree. Effort is in our hand but not result. Our effort may be goes waste as like corps goes waste by cyclone or flood. But not always. So why we will fear to put our effort?

Don’t be busy for the sake of busy. If you will not busy somebody will make you busy, like your father need something from you, your teacher given a task to you or the situation is pushing you to be busy for your servival. But if you will be busy for what you want to do then you can enjoy your busy life. So think again. This is real world.

Your mind is a miracle box or like the Jin Of Alhadin Lamp if you will keep busy in a constructive way, so it will give you what you ask. It is little bit dificullt but ultimately you will get real meaning of easy. But at the same time it is like a devil if you will not utilise proper way it will utilise you and take you into that step where don’t think of and after that your rest of life will be always busy, which looks easy.

Do you think we should be always busy for these material achievements? Absolutely not. Believe it or not, God or some one has created us with a clear objective to do a specific role which is inherent inside us. Feel it, understand it and utilize it. This will make our life easy.

Friends your suggestions, Comments are welcome for my next writing.

Dillip.

I Reduced My All Unnecessary Expenses For Food For Poor

Today again, I was shucked for two times for one scene. Some years before i was walking on a footpath nearby Rajmahal Square, Bhubaneswar. I saw one family of three members on that footpath; mother, her 2/3yrs old girl and her 3/4yrs old boy. They were fighting each other for a poor meal collected from any rich men's parties nearby. The meal was not sufficient for a child also, not included minimum items for a needy person also. The mother was taking her own food and the children was fighting to get from her. It was not easy to see the scene by standing there for a while. 

Just 15mins before of that I had finished my lunch in a standard hotel at Rajmahal Square and spent 50rupees for my meal. However, that day 30rupees was enough to fulfill my hungriness and so called necessary vitamins for the day as well. Whether I couldn't able to help that family at-least 20rupees for their food. That day, I was not strong myself to donate that much because of something that I don't know. It's not that I had no money in that moment, but I couldn't able do that. It's all about strong feelings or something else. 

That day, I had taken one promise that at least I will reduce my food expenses, but I had forgotten to add that in my life style. Today again, when I was walking on a footpath near to Silk Board, Bangalore, I saw a family of two members; one mother and her child. She was crying for food and her child was sleeping. I know that it will take time to verify their real needs, but it's true that many people are there in India who can't get their  minimum  food. I was shucked again.

So I planned to reduce my all unnecessary expenses from now on wards.

I can  reduce my exp in this ways:

• Not going for luxurious food in hotels, parties
• Avoid bars, drinks, smokes etc
• If having times, prepare food in room
• buying or using clothes as minimum requirements
• not to live in high rented rooms
• not using vehicles unnecessarily
• like many more...

If you want to help some poor, you may chose some of the points above or add into the list on which you can compromise.

You may find a needy poor in your family, relatives, friends, neighbors, village or in your daily life. 

I will spend those amount of saved money on food for a poor.

To Prevent Corruption, Don't Wait For a Team - a great experience that shared by Prabhat

I was introduced to Prabhat while I was asking to facebook users for a suggestion on fraud done by mobile service providers. I am suffering in the same, so that I am being prepare to file a sue against TATA docomo in consumer court.

“How Prabhat feels proud by preventing corruption”.  He is sharing his great experience (happened on 27th sep, 11), do read below:

“Yesterday, on the way to office, I was stopped by traffic policemen (Ghazipur, Delhi), and asked to show relevant documents of my bike.

I told them that 1) pollution certificate has expired and 2) Insurance copy that I was carrying is also outdated (although I have the renewed Insurance policy but was not carrying at that time).

The senior Inspector told me to that this will reach to a heavy penalty amt. So he offered me to SETTLE DOWN the matter then n there. (A thought ran in my mind, asking myself: I was the part of people supporting "Anti-Corruption" movement lead by ANNA HAZARE, just a month back, and the practical situation was in front of me, n how to deal with that).

Suddenly, I got my answer, and I refused them to pay anything, and asked them to issue a CHALLAN. Hence, they issued the same with 2 offenses viz. 1) Expired Pollution and 2) Expired Insurance and retained bike's RC (Registration Certificate).

To pay the penalty I was to appear at Karkardooma Court (room no. 30) by 4pm today. So, I went there, at the scheduled time. The moment I parked my bike, a bunch of people called Agents approached me and started querying about the matter, and were assuring to do the job done in 15 min. and were telling me that for both the offenses I 'll be charged about Rs. 2000/-, and if I had the Insurance then Rs 1100/- at least, but they can settle the matter within 500-600 rupees (including their commission worth Rs. 100). From parking up to Room no. 30, some dozens of Agents approached me and delivered the same damn story. I told them "listen, If I were to pay You people then I would have paid the policemen and need not come here".

I submitted the copy of CHALLAN and waited for my turn in Room no. 30. The (Lady)Judge appeared in the court and began hearings... after 5-7 minutes my name was called and was asked to present the valid Insurance doc. I presented the Original doc. and in fraction of seconds she announced the PENALTY AMOUNT, paid the amount immediately, collected my RC and the Amount Receipt later after the rest of hearings. HMMM... I know, u all are interested in the Penalty Amount, to my SURPRISE!! as well, it came to just Rs 100/-, nothing else.

I was getting a feeling of Satisfaction and Proud, in the sense that, ATLEAST I TRIED to live up to the Ideology of 'ANNA's Movement' against Corruption, in real sense.

MORAL: Never hesitate to approach the officials directly to resolve our personal matters. This way, we will get to know the actual rules n regulations and could contribute in removing CORRUPTION. Please Spread if u liked/not liked this.

It was amazing experience...”

We should not wait for a team to prevent corruption that Prabhat proved.

Thanks Prabhat.

Sunday Evening with Mr. Jagannath

Sunday evening, I was roaming around Silk Board square. I was relaxing myself after spending the whole day with newspapers, TV and Internet. Suddenly; exactly not suddenly, it was a preplanned to meet Mr. Jagannath on that day at his home. You can say it that was an invitation from him to me after a long time. Though I have gone in last week to meet him but that was not like this time. It was a special meet.  I reached at his home around 6.30Pm. Many people were there before me. All were busy with their own issues with him. I was observing the activities those were going on there. I found that people were sharing their feelings with him, but he was smiling always. “It may be a habit of him”, I thought. I don’t know whether people were getting satisfaction from his answer or not.

In the mean time, we both got a chance to welcome each other. I gave a smile and he also did the same. We moved towards the chairs and took the sit both. He serve me some Prasad. We shared many personal things to each other. I was sharing some serious decision that taken by me, but he was smiling. He was smiling from the beginning. I felt very uncomfortable with his smile. Whereas I was very serious at that time, but he was smiling at me. I thought he was taking me very lightly. I asked him with keeping a little angriness on his smile, but still he was smiling at me. It made me more angry. “Why do you smile while I am sharing my serious problem with you?”, I asked him again. 

“It’s my style. Whatever you are sharing now, I know it before you. The situation is with you now that is created by me. The solution that you are asking me, that is already fixed by me before your sharing. You are playing a role in a drama that directed by me. I have sent to you in this world for doing my job, but you have forgotten about the all things. It’s ok, it was also a part of that drama, but you should come back to your real character. However, you are not doing that. You have been already made you different from my creation and now you are sharing your issues with me to help you. You are sharing with me like a creator of yourself. You are taking promises and showing your madness in front of me. Now you tell me that what would you do if you were in my position? So, I am smiling always. By the way, I am thankful to you that you made me smile.:) ”, replied Mr. Jagannath to me.

He was replying without  taking a rest. I thought that he was waiting for this time to tell me. I stood up from my chair without any single word and move towards my room. Still, he was smiling behind me.

Really, we make him smile always.

 

You can continue your life like as a foolish as me for his smile or you can return to your real character and responsibilities that also make him smile. It’s your choice how to get thanks from him.

(Team Asha) They Clean our Hearts, Not a Street

Team Asha Bangalore:
Everybody may have seen a banner on I love India Group on facebook. This banner asks us to clean one of the most problems in India. Many people keep their own concerns and also want to all clear. But as I say in my last post that people wait for a team with them to clean these issues. They need a team of manpower’s or a fund of money to participate in this clearing mission. And, this thoughts push them to find themselves in their last age as a failure.

The banner has asked for three issues. Definitely, we can’t think about all at a speed of 100 in one day. But we take one step, choose a small role and start the work like Team Asha. They are waiting for us. They didn’t ask me to join with them. When I saw the video, it’s astonished me a lot. Each Individual army of light(I call good people with this name) was cleaning that street, stadium without asking, without waiting for others. I feel they are not cleaning that street, they are cleaning our hearts.

Want to Help Nation? Then, Build an Army

With the age grown up, many times we come through some of inspired events in our life those make us patriotism for some times. Like the last historical movement against corruption called by Anna. This type of movements are always being powerful effect on the society. If you look at the revolutions those moved by Gandhi, Mangal Pandey or Subhash Bose, all were most powerful to motivate people. That time many of us join with them and make the movement successful. We take promises, curate people to develop a team who will work forward for the nation.

But if you want be a hero like them:) Or you want to help nation as them, then follow their path; read their life; find juice, secret of their success. You will find an army behind them. They have own army. They don’t wait for others, don’t ask for others’ help. They don’t need a team with them to protest bad things. They take steps first and alone. This is the power that they use in their movements. People come with them. They are one man army. If you want to build an army, be an one man army.

Stand against small issues that comes in your daily life. Stand with them who brings good things to your society.  But keep in mind; though you are an one-man army, you have to know your limitations also:)

Best of luck!